Good Sunday Morning to everyone.

Jean - We've had Apple products since the mid 1990's, and have been satisfied with every purchase.  They just keep chugging along, when other brands wear out or have repair problems.  The only non-Apple device we have is my Smartphone, which is a Jitterbug . . .  made by Samsung, I think?  I chose it because it's slightly larger than other phones, and the text is bigger and easier for me to read.   Yes, it does seem like the "rust years" have set in for many of us here in S&F! 

Joy - I hope you feel better as the day moves along.  I also have a terrible time staying asleep at night. I'm exhausted by 10:00 pm, and fall asleep right away, but then wake up at midnight, and the rest of the night is up and down.  I usually read for an hour or so, or find something on TV to watch.  I don't like to sit at the computer during the night, because of hip and back pain, or eye blurriness.  Altogether, I usually get between three and five hours of sleep over a 24 hour period.  I've had that pattern for many years now, and I've managed to hang in there for almost 85 years, so I guess it's just me, and will probably never change?

I must say that AJ is very cheerful and busy, in spite of the colon surgery facing him on Friday.  He has a positive outlook on everything, and overall he is in good physical shape. Right now he's outside working on the VW, which he loves to do!

Patricia - I hope you're doing better today also.  I looked up the fires around Fairbanks, and I see that there are still a few fires burning!  I'm sure this has been a very uncomfortable Summer for you so far, and I hope it improves.

MESSAGE ABOUT LARRY -

Larry Hanna <larryhanna99@gmail.com>
To:Mary Ann Tock
Jul 28 at 9:26 AM
This is Scott, Larry's son. It brings great sorrow to inform you that my father is very ill and is not expected to last much longer. The Hospice nurse said he should make it though the night but beyond that she could not say. I apologize for starting your day like this.  My father asked me on Wednesday to stop all visitors , except his hospice nurses and aid. I will be contacting all of my fathers contacts (quite a job indeed) when he reaches his final destination. As we all know...heaven.

 

Well, look-it that. It is afternoon already, and I am just getting around to showing up in here. I managed to do self-inflicted damage to my freebie personal finance program so I trashed it and downloaded it again. Only this time, instead of everything being nice and crisp and clear, what downloaded (from the software's official website no less), opened up kind of fuzzy. It was like you might see if someone put up a screen capture of a program or chart page on their website that wasn't really clear. Well, I gave up and downloaded another program I've been wanting to try on my Linux. That done, I have been entering stuff and learning to get around in it.

I am so glad Patricia dropped in to let us know what was up. I hope she feels better soon.


I am off to see what kind of trouble I can get into now. Hopefully I don't wreck anything else today.

Uh, oh! Mary Ann, I just caught your post from Scott as I was getting ready to post this. So, so sorry to hear the news.

Mary Ann, thank you for posting Scott's message about Larry.  Thoughts and Prayers for Larry's family from here in Auburn, Alabama.  If Larry is not to last much longer, I pray that the end will be easy for him--and his family will rejoice for him.

Sue

Mary Ann - Scott...
...this message has left me so very sad...For years our Larry Hanna stayed totally loyal and devoted to our forum, never missing a days posting...we so take things-our members for granted...I was absolutely dreading this day to come... Larry, we are-will all be praying for you...

Good afternoon.

I did get 3 loads of laundry done. Not all put away yet, but that won't take too long. It is all folded and separated into piles of what goes in each drawer or closet.  I had the whole laundry room to myself.  I usually try to do it in the late afternoon, as that is usually a slow time. But, it worked out good today. 

It seems that when I get on the computer,  it kind of restores my energy, for some reason.  Maybe because I am thinking of different things.

However, I am so very sorry to read the message from Scott  I am thinking about all their family at this sad time.  But, I have to admire Larry for his strength and courage as he faced this final stage. I  feel like he is very prepared for what is ahead.  And, I hope that his strength and courage will help his family  at the end.  He did everything the way he wanted and I am sure Pat and Scott are grateful for what he believed in and I hope that will comfort them, knowing he was at peace with all the decisions he had made.  How lucky we all would be if we could have that same strength. He is a true Christian gentleman and we all are grateful for his long friendship.  He will be sorely missed.

Joy

I'm feeling very down and sad this afternoon about Larry.  I know that all of those who post here in B&T and in Soda Shoppe, are thinking about him today. I'm already missing his newsy and upbeat morning messages . . . always the first thing I read, when I logged into S&F every day.

I'm grateful that they have Scott, and that he is keeping us informed. I hope that Pat is home from the hospital, and is doing well.

I, too, am sad to read about Larry - although it wasn't unexpected.  He was such a good friend to each of us - always finding a personal comment that meant he was paying attention to us as individuals.
He will be missed.

Joy,  I did a lot of laundry yesterday and was so pleased that all the socks matched!  I usually manage to get one of them tangled up in something like the fitted sheet - and it doesn't show up until I use that sheet to change the bed.

Had to set the clock extra early on Friday to be at the doctor's for lab work and appointment. Saw a new doctor who's replacing my GP of 35 years who retired in June.
He's o.k. but stuck to the questions on that (IMO) useless Medicare Wellness Check list.  I know better than to compare but former GP always went a bit beyond that and checked things he knew were pertinent to ME.

Misread the time when I started to set it last night so I'd get to church this morning and was startled when the radio came on at 6:15 instead of 8:15!!  Got up anyway - and think a nap may be in order very shortly. 


Patricia, so sorry your osteo..  is acting up and hope you feel better very soon.

Prayers and gentle hugs to each of you who is dealing with health/sleep/etc./ issues.

Hope the week goes well for Everyfriend.

Bringing you the sad news...this was posted on our Christian Photographers site by Marilyn...

( Our Larry has now gone to his maker....I am sending my Sincere Condolences to Pat and Scott...

Rest In Peace Larry Hanna...from Jackie Hathaway, you have been a true friend, our God has another angel )    

From Scott Hanna:On Facebook
This is Scott again.

To all you wonderful people who have commented on Dad's page. Some have stated they believe this may be a hoax as they had communications with him just within the last two weeks. I can assure you all none of you have been victim of a hoax. As short as around 10 days ago he was up and active and interacting with his world. His decline was quick but generally quiet and peaceful. Mom was with him in his final moments and was singing him a song when he passed.

Larry had written recently that there would be no obituary because all of their friends are in the church and his death and plans would be announced.  I did ask Scott if he did place an obit, would he please send me a copy to we could put it in the Bereavement folder. 

Maybe someone can put that nice picture of Larry and Pat on their 57th wedding anniversary in that folder.  I am so glad they made it past the anniversary.

Mary Ann

Thank you, Jackie, for the message from Scott Hanna.

I'm so sad that Larry has lost his battle. He approached his final days with so much dignity and courage and such a positive attitude. I'm glad I had the chance to visit him and Pat a few years ago and was able to have a good conversation with him on Facetime a few weeks ago. I will miss him.

I am so sad to hear of Larry's passing.  We have lost so many of our friends these last couple of years.  I always looked forward to Larry's post.  He had a kind and understanding spirit.  May God give Pat and son Scott and the family strength.

It is a strange feeling how one can class someone who one has never met " who is from UK " as a true friend, but I can honestly say, hand on heart that Larry Hanna was one of mine...He was so thoughtful in helping others-me out, he had often sent me personal emails on subjects he had dealt with in his time such as alcohol abuse ( re, my daughter problems ) where he had attended Al Anon sessions as regards to a member of his family and had often sent me emails on bible passages or book titles on grieving and loss, after my sudden loss - bereavement of my Richard, he went out of his way to help me, I know this was also his same attitude towards others, he had a very kind heart, and i shall truly miss not having him around posting daily on our forums... Larry Hanna was a very special person indeed...a man who never wanted us to ever worry over him, ( as i often did )...well now he is with his - our God...My heart now goes out to his Pat, on how she will now cope without him after their 57 years of love and happiness together., such a wonderful achievement in today's society..

For your condolences messages re: Larry Hanna

https://www.seniorsandfriends.org/index.php?topic=736.msg159031#msg159031

Bubble, thank you for starting the folder to condolences and remembrances to Larry's family.  I know the family will appreciate hearing from us.

Beverly, yes, that is Katie appearing over Larry's shoulder. 

Jackie, you put into words the sentiments of many.  Why don't you copy it to the Larry Hanna folder so Scott can read it.

To any of the posters, if you have already posted something in this or Soda Shoppe, please copy and paste to the Larry Hanna folder.

Mary Ann

Mary Ann - I agree that Jackie's message should be added to the condolences. That picture with Katie in the background was taken at the SeniorNet Bash in Atlanta. It was the first time I met Larry.

Last night I was remembering all the ones we have lost since I first joined SeniorNet 25 years ago. The first SeniorNet Bash was held near Dallas, Texas and hosted by Jo Benfield. I was living in Oklahoma at the time. I remember how nervous we all were, meeting these "strangers from cyberland".    From the beginning we had a wonderful time. (Husbands and wives were included.) We toured the John F. Kennedy Museum in Dallas, went to restaurants as a group, and enjoyed a fancy banquet at the hotel where we all stayed. By the time we left, three days later, we had made friendships that would last for years. I am so grateful to Pat Scott for opening Seniors and Friends for us after we were unceremoniously dumped by SeniorNet. We did lose some people in the process. This is a place where we can "meet with friends" even when we don't (or can't) leave the house. I know I don't post often but I do love you all!

I sound like a broken record.😊  Another hot summer day.  With breakfast over and the wash started thought I would stop for a minute and wish everyone as good a day as possible according to their circumstances.

Thanks Bubble for posting the photos of Larry Hannah and Pat.  We surely will miss his daily posts.

Mary Ann, did you have your usual tuna melt and half piece of pie as usual yesterday?  I didn't even go out if the house yesterday but did take a couple of pictures of a hawk sitting on a tree limb behind our fence.  There were a couple of mourning doves on the ground but he just sat there looking.

We did see another pair of bluebirds going in and out of the other birdhouse.  So maybe we will have some more bluebirds in the neighborhood.

Marilyne, hoping you are feeling better today.

Well, must go and do a few household chores.

 

Patricia, thanks for posting the bio of Larry. I enjoyed reading it.

Yes, Jean, Dot and I had our "usual" half piece of cream pie and half of a tuna melt.  I can't tell you what kind of pie it was, but it was a cream pie.  They're all good so it doesn't matter what kind it is.  Mr Burger is a burger joint a place to take family.  On Sunday mornings it is crowded.  We've been lucky to find a parking place and a booth in the place.  Two couples from church are often there, eating together.  The place is air conditioned so we are comfortable, more than in church on these hot days.

I talked to Tom a while ago and he was headed for the Kalamazoo/Battle Creek air port to leave off his former classmate, then he will head for home.  I had an idea too late that if Tom was north of Grand Rapids, he could stop and pick me up on the way to Kazoo but he was already there.  We will go out for supper tonight as I knew we would. 

Mary Ann

The 100 degree weather is over for now, so today will be a much more comfortable day than the last two.  Funny how 85 degrees now feels cool!  Love that fog rolling in off the Pacific Ocean!

Mary Ann - I didn't realize you were alone this past weekend. When Tom goes out of town, I guess you can always call on Dot, in case of an emergency?  It seems like Tom, is often picking up or dropping off friends at the airport. He really goes out of his way to help others.  Enjoy your dinner out tonight!

Patricia - I hope you're slowly getting back to normal?  I guess we should call it the "new normal", which is never as good as the old. 

Jean - I'm feeling okay today.  Not as good as a year ago at this time, but I shouldn't complain at my age. I don't know whatever happened with my UTI and the medications that didn't work?  They were supposed to call me today, with another prescription, but I don't think I'm going to take anything more.  I can't risk another bad reaction, when we have AJ's surgery coming up in a few days.

Hi to,  Beverly, MarsGal and Jackie -  More later:  Brad is coming over soon to take us to lunch, so I'll be out for a couple of hours.  Sounds good to me, as we didn't get out at all over this hot weekend.

Yes, Marilyn, I was alone this weekend.  I don't advertise it until the time is over; I really don't worry about strangers reading about my being alone, but I think it wise to not publicize it.  If Tom is gone for more than a few days, he asks Annie to stop by, but she has forgotten to do so in the past and she works and has her life to live.  If I were not well, he would not leave and if I really was not well, I probably would be in a retirement home.  And Dot is near so I don't worry and it's kind of nice being alone, really alone, for a few days.  It's good for me.  I also have Kendrick for company. 

I'm sorry you are affected by meds and I hope you'll feel OK when AJ has his surgery.  It doesn't rain but what it pours sometimes. 

I just read Larry's story, written by Janet.  Even though there are many years difference in our ages, Larry's folks taught him like my parents taught me.  Lots of similarities.  The story is long, but well worth reading.

Mary Ann

Good morning, Mary Ann.  I'm glad to hear that you're feeling OK and things are going well for you.  I read your posts every day and enjoy hearing about your activities.  I don't post much except for Bosom Buddies where I'm a long time breast cancer survivor.  I do read your posts and others, but don't often post except for BB's.

SCFSue

Thanks, Sue, it is good to have you drop in occasionally.  We talk about lack of participation in the folders and I realized it isn't the deaths that decrease the numbers but the fact we don't get any new people.  The deaths are normal, after all we are a Senior group, but we do need newcomers. 

I just returned from having my teeth cleaned.  Because I had periodontal work done many years ago, I go to the dentist three times a year.  Two of the visits are paid in full by the insurance company and the third is paid for by me.  If I went to a periodontist for that third visit, that would be paid for too, but I wasn't crazy about the dentist and I convinced my regular dentist that his hygienists could do as good a job.  My regular dentist is a block away and the periodontist was in Rockford. 

My TV quit working the other day and Tom looked at it this morning and found the problem is in the remote, easily fixed.  The TV is on now.

Mary Ann

Good morning, Mary Ann and nice to see you, also, Sue.

Sue, were you ever able to get in touch with Jack ?  I have not heard anything from him for a while.  I hope he is continuing to be doing well,  We all miss his wonderful photos.  I think his main reason for leaving was the fact, like Mary Ann said,  there was just not enough participation.  I think he only posted on the photography boards.  He didn't ever post here, I don't think. 

It is  a pretty sunny morning.  I have an appointment this afternoon with the urologist. So, hopefully, I will be able to get some help with my UTI.   Seems like this is a problem for several of us. 

I really7 miss seeing Larry's early postings and I think we all feel the same way.  I did read the bio, which sounded exactly like how we all felt about Larry.  It is a shame that there aren't more "Larrys" in this world.

Again, Sue, it was nice seeing you here and do hope you will come back.  This is a nice group, along with the Soda Shoppe group and also your BB group.  Every once in a while, I would post there when Sylvia was still with us.  She and I had become really good friends over the years.  I had first met her when I had gone to the Fibromyalgia board to ask some questions for a friend of mine, who had Fibro. Sylvia kept urging me to keep coming back and we got to be very good friends.  I still  miss her a lot.

Need to get going.  Have a pleasant day.

JOY

Mary Ann - I agree, that it's a shame we don't get new members here in S&F.  I think message boards, like this one, are quickly becoming a relic of the past, just like chat rooms.  Both were popular in the early days of the internet, but now have been replaced by what is called "social media". . . Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc.  Although I have accounts in all three of those, I still prefer message boards, where you can get to know people on a personal level, and write as much as you want. Also, I have a hard time keeping my Facebook posts to one or two sentences!     
Good that Tom fixed your TV, so you'll have it ready if you feel like watching.  I've haven't really enjoyed "Jeopardy", since James was on for so long, but AJ likes it, so I do watch it occasionally.  He admires those men (always men) who are so lightning fast with the answers, and seemingly cannot be beat.  There is another man on there now, who is exactly the same, and I really don't care to watch him win every night.  This week they switched over to the Teen Tournament, so I'm enjoying the change.

You're very good about your dental cleanings!  Wish I could say the same, but I only go about once a year now. I have a lot of problems with my jaw, and some overgrowth of bone on my gums, so it's uncomfortable for me to go very often.

I am so sorry I have been negligent in posting, but our time here in Boston has been so packed full, that I just have not had the time, or honestly the energy to post. 😩 PLEASE know that I have however thought about you all many times and hoped everyone was doing well. 

PATRICIA, I knew you were missing and I am sorry to read you have been under the weather.  Glad you are back and feeling much better. 

MARILYNE, I am sorry to read about your UTI and that you have suffered with the reaction to the medication.  I do hope you are better and especially if you did not have to take a chance on another med that might have caused you more problems.  I am very sorry to read that AJ's biopsy confirmed cancer.  Please know that he will be in my thoughts and prayers for a full recovery.  Hugs to you.  I hope your lunch out was very enjoyable for you both.

We enjoyed a very nice 52nd anniversary day, yesterday.  Kurt took us to my favorite local deli...my choice, then we had a nice dinner with the family. 

Every day we have been in the pool.....I am looking as brown as a berry!  I slather the sun screen on and hid under my wide brim hat, but the sun is intense for sure! Of course all of the family contacted us however my Dad did not remember until very late.  I talk to him every day and told him the night before, but his mind is very bad right now.  I did not care as much for me as I did for him when he would realize he did not remember 😢😩

I did not realize Paul Halbeck has been ill.  I am sad to read of his passing.  He and Pat came to Denver to visit just after one of my surgeries and Carol and Don Shovein hosted them.  It was a treat to have them visit. 


MARY ANN, I am sure happy the TV problem turned out to be a easy fix.  Always love to hear hat you and Dot did your usual on Sunday.  🥰

BEVERLY, it is shocking to think back to the many friends that we know that have passed, and there are even MORE that we have not heard about.  As Mary Ann said, we are a senior group....but still😩

I have to run....going to pick up grandson from summer school.  Then we have to pick the other one up from camp later this afternoon. 

Jenny

 

We went to Bed, Bath and Beyond to replace some kitchen stuff that is getting threadbare.  Then we did a little shopping at Belk's and I was more than ready to come home.  It is so hot out that it is miserable just going to and from the car.

Jenny, it sounds like you had a nice vacation.  Now you will have to rest up from the vacation.

Joy, hope you have a good visit with the doctor.

Mary Ann,  we had the same problem with our TV the other day.  Larry unplugged the modem and that took care of the problem.  The hardest thing is getting down on the floor to unplug it and even harder getting back up again.  Although Larry can get up and down a little better than I can.  Actually, I have no trouble getting down—-it is the getting up that gives a problem.

Marilyne, sure hope you are feeling better.

Sue, it is nice to see you posting.  Are you able to drive yet?  I did notice that you are walking every day.

Thinking of you all.  Time to go fix some lunch.

Jean, our modem is in this room on a shelf.  I can reach the modem but the cord to the surge protector is tight and I can't maneuver the modem to pull plugs.  We have another thing that looks like the foreign ships on St Clair River, the ships with the grain containers, and I don't monkey with that.  The only thing I know is that the light on it should be green.  Anyway, it turned out to be the remote, of which I have two.

I went out on the deck for a while and it was lovely.  I have not turned on my a/c yet and there was such a nice breeze.  What pleased me was when I went out there was a bank of white clouds, solid, stretching from the west to the east and overhead was bright blue sky.  What is so rare as a day in July!

Robin is expected soon to clean today and I am going to have her wash windows.  She had offered and since I had not heard from the man who did them for years, I asked her.  She will also change my bed.

For some reason I felt blah when I got up this morning, including when I went to the dentist.  Around noon, I found a muffin Tom had bought for me at Mc D's and I ate that and felt more normal.  I find I am not the morning person I used to be.

Mary Ann